Making WiNE | Pinky Ghadiali

I thought to myself, either I choose to be a victim and let those feelings rule me or I consciously choose to rule it.

On Your Doorstep | Abigail Tennant

Wherever you live, you are in a community.

Loving Every Day | Charlotte Underwood

Love is something that cannot be confined into a day.

Lost Connection | Eilidh G Clark

It was January, 2018, before I realised I had social anxiety

Fairy Dust | Talitha Mayisha

...waiting in a castle, for her sword-wielding knight in dress

Being Part of a Student Community | Bettina & Jack

People say that ‘happiness is the only thing that doubles when you share it.’

Talking about Mental Health in the University Community

Why is it that universities can be very lonely places, where isolation can contribute to adverse mental health outcomes and, very sadly, sometimes to suicides?

Communities artwork by Keisha Rowe

Group chat | Artwork | By Keisha Rowe

I struggled with interpreting the theme of community a bit. Community – to me – involves connecting and feeling involved...

Community is Progress | Julie Farrell

Every time we offer our words and willing ears pick them up, a new one blooms into life...

In Good Company | Christine Howie

A place that’s safe, honest and true
Where I can be me and you can be you

Finding Place | Sophie Isaacson

Sophie Isaacson on finding a sense of place in a high speed, overwhelming and globalised society.

A Jump into the Ocean of Life | Laura Boxleitner

I was thrown into community living.

Building a Healthy Feminist Community | Talat Yaqoob

Feminist pioneer Talat Yaqoob discusses on empowerment, intersectionality and self-care

Eve Falling | Natalie Sirett

Rebelles and Outcasts | Natalie Sirett

The roots of our shamefulness run deep...

Thank Fuck For Friends | Laura Wigley

Thank fuck for friends
Gin, tears and laughter

[Video] The First Night | Ely Percy

Ely Percy captures the feeling of being new to a community in this fictional vignette of a Scottish queer night scene.

Community Helped Redefine my Self-Worth | By Emma Penney

It was connecting with strangers that set me off on a mission to talk about depression...

Community as an Intervention to Isolation | By Soufia Bham

Being part of multiple communities has allowed me to find a space where it feels okay to share

How To Find Community In Burnout | By Briana Pegado

I simply channeled my anxiety and depression into overwork

Community | By Mandy Lee Berger

Growing up, I had to take care of myself and rely on myself and could never rely on anyone else.

A-Z of Family Estrangement | By Mairi Campbell-Jack

A is for anchor. The thin reedy voices of the spares congregation echoed round the empty freezing space of the church.

Failure and Success

Ericka Waller pens one of her usual “lists of failures”, but this time adds a second -- of her day’s successes

Always Remember This

Guilt has flourished into acceptance and the ability to move on rather than constantly striving then failing to change the past.

Short Story: art work

He wouldn’t try to fight his way through such a barrier, she knows that.

Finding Me

The end of a relationship is also a new beginning...

Beginning

I didn't feel the rush of love I'd read about.

Surviving The Christmas Break

I have to turn my social media off at Christmas as everyone shares the mountains of presents they gave or received.

Lauren Drinkwater illustration

Volunteer Series: Becoming Fearless

It's hard to know where to begin when it comes to my mental health, which seems strange because it's something I think about every day.

A Toast to Imagination

Here's to a generation of women who've come of age believing that our truest selves are counterfactuals

Spoken Word Recording: Ode to my NSA Agent, AKA Dave

Nobody ever sees you, Dave. Do you ever wish that you knew as little as we do...?

Why I’m Not Looking For ‘The One’

Our culture is completely obsessed with this narrative that "one day" you'll find "the one"

My Pain is Bigger Than Yours

Julie Farrell addresses the sugar-coated stigma and toxic hero-worship of the ‘recovered’...

Sticks and Stones

I love myself, cellulite, resting bitch face and all...

Volunteer Series: Far From Fearless?

Fearless Volunteers - Writer Gurpreet Sihat shares how volunteering with Fearless has helped her to heal...

Raw Women | Art Series

My two friends here are powerful and understand what it takes to be a young artist and ...

The Making of a Man

Watchman: poet Clare O'Brien and artist Lynn Bennett-Mackenzie reflect on place and displacement...

Power to the People!

High-profile support for Fearless Femme. Six months since our official launch and my, how we've grown...

A Woke Dating Guide

‘It’s called the Edge Lords, right?’ ‘No, man,’ I said. ‘It’s all about the Woke Lads now.

Dubious Beginnings

The issue was not having a fucking clue what to do next.

To My Little Silver Lining

You may not have had time to enter this world with your footprints my love,
but you have had a great impact all the same.

Relationships: Equality vs Codependency

In holistic medicine I found answers by tracking my own personal power

If I’m Being Honest

Somedays I only put myself first...

Unchained Temptress

Curiosity and desire, Laughter and connection, Feeds that electric spark

What’s it like to work at Fearless?

A behind-the-scenes look at working in a mental health-focused social enterprise.

How is Fearlessley funded?

If you've ever been curious about our legal structure or funding model, read on!

The Aftermath

In a month’s time, I will still be gay.

Long Way Home

Bales and dragonflies plus twice-kissed wine

Feathers

I was told, that I was a bird, with a song too bold, for my own good

Parental Love

I’d walk over if I cut my knee in the playground
Because that’s what I was expected to do

The Gay Equation

In a bid to rid myself of being a lesbian, I ripped the pages from my diary, tore them up into tiny pieces

Happiness

Beautiful poetry by Charlotte Underwood, sparked by vivid memories of time with a loved one.

Would I date me? Probably Not (Yet)

Borderline Personality Disorder is characterised by extreme reactions

A for Asexual

Then I realised it’s okay to just be me, to live the life I was already living.

One Night in Bed

It’s not the kind of love that’s always pretty I’ve wept and fallen to pieces, in fact and will again

Stuck in the Middle: The Harmful Trend of Bi-Erasure in the Media

So, why does such representation matter?

Ode to a Woman

naked, vulnerable, in your arms
I yearn, to belong

Music: A Microcosm of Queerness

...from my career to my relationships to my queerness – the only way I’m likely to succeed is if I live authentically and strum to my own rhythm.

By The Way

Sudden anxiety, feeling morbid, awkward, terrified, But determined

Remembering Marsha

“you can’t talk about the movements and important moments in the LGBT community without mentioning Marsha P Johnson.”

How We Survive (Girlhood)

Dedicated to, and inspired by the 7 extraordinary girls I spent my adolescence with.

Vicky Romeo Plus Joolz: An Extract

She’s playing me like I played all those other girls before her. I’ve never had to try very hard to win any woman’s affections.

Do You Feel Like An Outsider?

My granny Marian came out as gay in her 50s in rural Scotland. She left her marriage that was crumbling after 25+ years...

She’s Narnia and I’m The Closet

like fine wine I had to spit out before I could taste its spice, like briefly helping her dress backstage...

A Head Full of Worried Elephants

Rational thought stood no chance against the elephants, which multiplied, a herd of hundreds...

J

J’s that friend, The one you don’t want others to meet, To even glimpse really, But they do, Not often, Not always, But sometimes. 

Interaction

I didn't realise how lonely I was

Better Late Than Never

Studying when you struggle with mental health problems is sometimes a seemingly impossible task.

Lessons from my mother

It took me a while to realise it; my mother truly is a superwoman....

Please stay here and hold my hand

In early 2014 my heart broke as I watched one of my best friends in the whole world, my Dad, become a stranger...

Happy Memory

One of my favourite childhood memories was when I went on holiday...

Family is a Feeling

Violence skimmed across my family like a stone. It never settled for long, but enough to move the surface...

Not Like Them

My earliest memory is of my dad lifting me up to peek over the edge of my sister’s cot...

Fifty Shades of Green

Have a baby they said, you'll glow they said. So I did but I didn't. My glow was more a shade of pond green algae...

Taking the Pill

In 2007 I gave birth to my daughter. After four months of continual depression I saw a psychiatrist who diagnosed me...

My Family

My father drives around in his van with at least two teddy bears, the men at the tip don’t quite know what to think of him...

Liberty

Did Love fill your obliviated heart, Did you really think that wearing ankle length skirts in Liberty, Would ever truly set you free?

Storm Clouds Lifting

Storm clouds lifting, // Emotions shifting // Searching deeper increasingly braver...

Stop All the Clocks

So now I'm finally paying tribute to my one-eyed, no-tailed, four-legged wingman...

Father Issues

Finding out that the man who had raised me wasn't my biological father was the beginning of the new me.

Comfort

Whenever I have those bad thoughts, // I can always count on you...

Tattoos Your Mother Doesn’t Want You to Have

You never told me that my body was my own, yet you told me that women died getting the vote...

Fearless Woman

For as long as I remember, I have seen my mother being brave, outspoken and bold. Until one day, I came across an old picture...

Video Thumbnail: Sexual Harassment in Schools by Katie Horsburgh

Sexual Harassment in Schools

Sexual harassment in schools is commonplace and widespread. The following accounts have been collected from real girls from across the UK.

Recipe for Happiness

I’ve been working on my recipe for my own happiness for years now.

We Crave Equality

In solidarity // We crave equality // Where is the quality // Of our behaviour // No failure // In creating a better world

Superhero

When I was 5 years old I wanted to be a superhero, // or at least // I wanted to have superpowers // I wanted to fly

The Case for Talking to Your Dad About Feminism

This is a rallying call for women and femmes everywhere: talk to your dad about feminism.

A Caged Songbird

I sat, a silent songbird
Languishing in a silver cage
Bound by finely woven wires
Wound from anxiety and depression
Trapping me...

Shine Equally Bright

Laying among sunshine and newspapers,
the city bustles around the park’s edge.
I am convinced those around me are faultless, fearless...

Being a Great Friend, Despite an Anxiety Disorder

If people don’t know what’s going on, anxious friends can end up looking like jerks. I’m a high functioning anxious person and am often able to hide my...

Thunder Lily

She bursts into bloom
from a wild and furious storm.
Her fire fueled by lightning,
voice powered by thunder
roaring from deep within her belly.

Cover Image: Love Yourself

Love Yourself

If I could go back, I'd tell my younger self,
"It's ok. You're doing great. Don't change."
But mostly, I'd say this...
"You are loved...

If You Can’t Love Yourself…

I believe we’ve been taught how to love wrongly. Be it the films where love is proven by punching the new boyfriend in the rain, or the way your friend comforted you...

Table For One

I have a table for one booked this Valentines day, to celebrate the relationship I have built with myself. My self-love was smelted in the fires of surviving the hardest of times...

Cover Image: Business Kiss

Business Kiss

"You doing okay?"
"Tired."
"Let me know if you need time alone."
"Okay."
"Shake on it?"

Intimacy! (with anxiety)

Growing up, I wasn’t a very sexual person at all, and the idea of being intimate with someone in any way made me feel sick...

Do You Have To Love Yourself?

I remember scrolling through Instagram a few years ago as a young, naïve and wholly inexperienced fifteen year old and pausing on a picture of a quote...

Crawling

Crawling 2 u
Gripped to the floor beneath me
I'm hungry for what we have
But I need it again
Give in to me, no holds barred...

You

I close my eyes.
I see you, us
What we are and what we could be
And I catch my reflection, smiling.
She's happy.

Love Is All

When I was a wee girl, love was safety and warmth; the strong arms of mum rescuing me from danger, the soft material of dad’s jumper as I snuggled closer...

Wet Your Appetite

It’s a funny thing.
When you wet your lips.
And bite down hard.
On the way love has come upon you.
It’s a funny thing ...

Image: Phone keyboard

Don’t Text When Drunk

I dipped myself in icing sugar,
Made myself appealing,
Powdered over the neediness,
The anger, the feelings ...

A Letter to You: the Things I’ll Never Say to my Unfaithful Ex

A letter to you, I haven't spoken to you since I found out and I hate that you'll think I'm in the wrong for never giving you a chance to explain but I know I'm not...

Heartbeat

I don’t need
to enlist photographs
to reassure me of your gaze,
as the penetration
of your eyes
is emblazoned on my face ...

Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams in The Notebook

Passion or Dysfunction? Hollywood’s Unhealthy Love Model

The first moment you see him, you know. The second he steps onto the cinema screen. He’s handsome. He’s sweet. He treats the heroine with unrelenting kindness...

Confessions of an Ungrateful Wretch

I wasn’t quite expecting to have a baby when I did. It was July, not September. It was too early and everything was going wrong...

Just Roll With It: How Enjoying My Body Saved My Mind

They say that when you’re depressed, you lose interest in many things that, once upon a time, made you feel alive...